Monday, October 26, 2009

Make a Vision /Dream board to attract what you want in your life.

Live your DREAM!

The quickest way to change your life is to choose what you want your life to be like! Sounds pretty obvious. but you would be surprised at how many people want a better life, but don't do anything about it!

Here is one of the most effective ways to start:

1. CHOOSE IT: Figure out what you want, and write it down in detail.

2. Read through your list, and add the things that you didn't put down because you thought they were outside your reach. Don't limit yourself- DREAM BIG!

3. Get some magazines and cut out any pictures, phrases, text - anything that interests you, or represents the things you want in life.

4. Put all these into a folder. Also add pictures of your own (friends family, anything that inspires you).

5. BUILD IT: Once you have a lot to play with, then spread them out and choose which ones you want to use. The examples here are on an 8 1/2 by 11 piece of paper, so I can carry it with me in my notebook and look at it anytime I want (even at work).

I also have some very large ones on poster board, and even one in a huge frame! Glue them down, laminate it- whatever you want- but make it something PERMANENT!

6. SEE IT: When you get yours built, put it where you look at it every day! The idea is to find out what you want, make a visual representation , and then see it in front of you every day. I made these examples to remind me to think about where I am, and to get me to take action on what I want to do in life.

7. GET IT: The universe wants to give you what you ask for, but if you don't ask- you don't get. The easiest way to get the life you want is to CHOOSE IT, BUILD IT, SEE IT, GET IT, and the Universe will say: "Your wish is my command"!

Thursday, October 15, 2009

The fear of becoming you- the hero

When someone asks you who you are, you will probably tell them "about you". You might say "I'm a teacher", or maybe you might say what you like to do- "I love to surf!'

But is what you do - who you are?

These things show your profession, or interests, but who you are is so much more. The problem for most people is they don't really know who they are. They have accepted the labels that others have placed upon them- usually without a comment!
Most of the time, these labels are "less than flattering". And the sad thing is that we listen to these lies for so long that we actually start to believe them!

My wife is a school teacher, and she often tells me about a bright and intelligent child who has been told that they are dumb, or good for nothing. It breaks her heart to see this, and it takes a great deal of effort on her part to teach these children that the things other people tell them are not true. She teaches them to believe in themselves. I have seen teenagers come running up and hug her and ask how she is doing. When she introduces them to me, she will usually say something like "This is John Smith, He was the coolest kid in his 3rd grade class, and I have not seen him since he moved away that summer"!

WAIT a MINUTE!
She hasn't seen this kid for 15 years!
She was their teacher in 3rd grade only, and they treat her like this?!!! They act like she's a famous relative or celebrity!
This goes to show you how much impact you can have on someone when you take the time to help them help themselves.
She truly loves these kids and they know it!
She has taught them to feel good about themselves.
She has shown them that they can build a better life for themselves- no matter what anyone else says.
She teaches them to not be afraid of who they are.
If only we had a lot more teachers like her!

If you had a teacher like this in school- THANK YOUR LUCKY STARS!

They are the true hero's in this world.

My favorite teacher taught creative writing in high school. Mary Ann Jameson taught me to bring my thoughts and feelings alive. When you think something, and don't use that thought, it stays locked in your head. However, something magical happens when you put that idea down on paper. Write it out in words... draw that picture... give that idea life!

THAT is what you need to do with your life!
CHOOSE what you want your life to be like. Imagine it in color, and vivid detail.
Then WRITE IT DOWN!
Make a Vision Board - a collage of pictures of the things you want to have, do, and be! Put it where you can see it every day!

It may sound a little silly, but when you do this.... It will happen.
The only way to get exactly what you want is to KNOW what you want and then ASK for it!
Get it out of your head and into the real world. Make it a physical object and then the universe will give it to you.
This is the underlying principle to attracting what you want in life. This is not a "SECRET", it is how the world works.
I have known this for a very long time, and each time I used this principle it has worked. My only problem has been in making my dream so small.
So don't waste time attracting small goals (even though you will get them). Go for the big goal!
CHOOSE to have the life you were meant to have.
And improve the lives of those around you in the process!
Do something special with your life.
And don't forget to thank those who helped you!

Thank you Mrs. Jameson, you have truly touched my heart, and made me a better person. The world is a better place because of you! With deepest love- Darrell

So don't forget:
Choose your own life.
Help someone whenever you can.
Make an impression on someones heart.
Be someones hero.
and pay it forward.

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

Feeling Lost?

Ever get the feeling your not where you need to be?
Kind-of-like you know that your supposed to be doing something important, but your in someone else's dream.....

Well maybe it's time for you to wake up.

Figure out where you are and where you need to be. The first part seems obvious- your right here... right???
Well, maybe... and maybe not.
"Here" seems like the place you are now, but it is not "real" at all. Have you ever seen the movie "The Matrix"?
In this movie, a man feels like he is living a lie, like he is missing something. Then he finds out the truth- his life really is a lie. It is all a fabrication, and all he needed to do is to choose to see what is real in order to escape the prison he was in! Go see the movie! It is a great metaphor for changing your life.
Anything that you believe in IS real to you, even if it is not the truth. Reality is a point of view. Believing in a lie is a self made prison. Believing in yourself and building your own life is freedom.
So if you believe that your life is crap - then it is. If you believe you cannot break free of the mess you have created - you are right!
So why not change your beliefs?
Instead of saying you cannot change, Say that you can! Not just that , say you ARE changing your life! Picture what you want your life to be like. Pick the steps you will take to make it so. Don't go through life being a victim!
Live YOUR life NOW!
Choose it.
Plan it.
Do It!
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